What age should kids stop napping

Updated Jun 23, 2022
What age should kids stop napping

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When do kids stop napping?

What are the signs your child is ready to stop napping?

Kids’ napping behavior by age

How to help your kid stop napping during the day?

What should parents expect when reducing their kids’ naps? 

 FAQ about what age should kids stop napping

Typically by the age of 3 to 4, little ones stop needing as much daytime sleep and will drop their last nap. However, there’s no hard and fast rule here, some children require a short nap for a little longer, occasionally until the age of 5. Others will be ready to drop their last nap closer to 2 and a half years of age. You’ll need to pay close attention to your little ones and their cues here. Dropping this last nap too early can lead to overtiredness so we recommend taking a gradual approach to ensure they’re ready.

    • You may notice that your child has started skipping naps. Perhaps the lunchtime nap has become a bit of a battleground in your household. This will turn into a consistent pattern rather than the 2 year old sleep regression where nap skipping is more of a phase and they’re not quite ready to drop them yet.

    • They may start waking up early. It’s possible they’ve had all the sleep they need when combining their long nap with nighttime sleep. If early waking is a new thing and happens a few days in a row, it may signal change is coming.

    • They may be getting enough rest from their day nap that their night sleep shortens to less than 10 hours. 

    • If they do try to nap, they may struggle to fall asleep easily, lying awake for a long time or not falling asleep at all. 

    • If they have napped, they may find it much harder to fall asleep at night. They now need a longer wake window (6 - 7 hours) between waking from their lunchtime nap and being tired enough to fall asleep again. 

Typically by the age of 3 to 4 months most babies will fall into a pattern of having three to four naps a day. They’ll drop their afternoon nap to have two naps about 7 - 9 months of age and then lose that morning nap to just have one nap by around 14 - 18 months. 

The final change is the move to no naps at all. Typically most children have dropped their last nap of the day by the age of 3 to 4 although there really is a wide range here and some children will still have a daytime nap occasionally up to the age of 5. 

If they have been used to a 90 minute to 2 hour lunch nap and they’ve started waking a little earlier then follow their lead. If they’re still sleeping during the day but taking longer to fall asleep at night then try capping their lunch nap. Cut it back by 10 - 15 minutes every 3 - 4 days to see if you can find a better harmony between nap length and bedtime sleep. 

On days where they stay awake and skip a nap, try replacing nap time with quiet time. Preferably keep this to their room in dim light. This offers them the chance to fall asleep if they need to. Read some books or play a quiet game. Try to avoid screen time. If they don’t sleep then this gives them the ability to rest and recuperate a little before going into the afternoon stretch. Plan quiet time for exactly the same time as they used to take their nap as their energy levels will still naturally dip at this point. 

On days where they haven’t napped, bring dinner and the start of the bedtime routine forward a little to ensure they don’t get overtired. It also helps to ensure they get enough nighttime sleep, we’re aiming for about 12 hours on no nap days.

For those who love a schedule and the quiet time, we get when they nap this may be lost. Some days they’ll nap, others not and it may be a tough and bumpy ride for a little bit.  Try to be flexible and go with the change, taking cues from your child and their energy levels on a day-to-day basis.

It’s hard managing the rollercoaster of emotions of a pre-schooler, but even harder when we throw in less sleep, tiredness, and schedule changes.

If they have napped then it may take them a little longer to fall asleep at night than usual. Some children will manage this well, but others may become restless and play up a little in their crib or bed. Note that most children will need at least 5 - 6 hours of awake time in between their nap and bedtime in order to be sufficiently tired.

As their naps eventually leave them, their bedtime will need to come a little earlier to try and ensure they get a good 12 hours of sleep at nighttime. You may need to shift around the family routine a little to suit this transition.

This last nap transition may go on for a few weeks. If you’re unsure whether they’re ready then you can always try removing the nap for a week or two to see if they can make the adjustment. Don’t hesitate to bring bedtime forwards on a no-nap day during the transition period. It’s common for children this age to need two naps just once or twice a week until they fully adjust to staying awake for longer periods.

Try and schedule some quiet time and quiet play during the day at the point in which they would have napped in the past. They’re still likely to have a low point in their energy levels here. 

Sometimes this last nap transition can take a while and can get a little messy in places. Continue to ‘protect’ their nap time. If they want to nap, great, if not, then have an hour's quiet time in their room if possible. Keep offering them the opportunity to nap and rest. If they skip this nap every day for a couple of weeks in a row then it’s a good sign they’re ready to give up naps completely.  

FAQ about what age should kids stop napping

Q: Do pre-schoolers need naps?

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Most toddlers still need naps until the age of 3 and some will need an occasional nap until they’re 5! If they’re ready to drop their naps then they still benefit from some quiet time at the point where they used to nap.

Q: What is the average age of a toddler to stop napping?

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Typically we see this transition around the age of 3. However, some children are ready to drop their naps earlier and some will need them for another year or even two.

Q: How to stop napping during the day?

A:

You can gradually reduce their nap time or replace nap time with quiet time. They’re likely to get overtired during this transition so make sure you offer an earlier bedtime on no nap days.

Q: How to stop napping in the afternoon?

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If your child has skipped their nap of the day but is starting to look really tired by the afternoon then plan to bring bedtime forwards rather than offer a quick nap. If they nap later in the day then it will mean they may not fall asleep for a long time at bedtime. Try having a little quiet time or going out for a walk in the fresh air and then making sure they have an early bedtime (but no earlier than 6 PM).

Q: What do you do when your kid won't nap?

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You can offer a "quiet hour" where they’re in their sleep space resting for an hour. This gives them the opportunity to fall asleep if they need to, or just rest. If they don’t nap then get them up after an hour and bring bedtime a little earlier.

Q: My kid sometimes naps and sometimes doesn't. Is that normal?

A:

This is really normal during the transition from one nap to no naps. Make sure you offer the opportunity to nap at the right point in the day. Not too early as they won’t be tired enough, and not too late when they’re over tired. Also make sure the sleep environment is dark, calm, peaceful, and has no distractions. If you’ve made sure the routine and sleep environment are good and they still don’t nap then rest is still really beneficial to charge them up for the afternoon's activities!

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