4 year old feeding schedule: Amounts and food chart
Updated Oct 20, 2025
Preschoolers are really coming into their own and developing into amazing little kids. This extends to their eating habits too! Many parents find a welcome relief from some picky eating behaviors at this age, though your kiddo will likely still have strong food preferences. Keep reading for more information on feeding your four year old.
4 year old preschooler sample feeding schedule
As your child gets further into the preschool years, many parents begin to see a shift in eating behaviors. For some, picky eating behaviors start to fade and their four year old becomes a more adventurous eater. They continue to eat the same foods the family eats and like to put their own spin on meals such as building their own sandwich or pasta dish.
Preschoolers will likely need to eat every 3 - 4 hours, adding up to about four to five times a day. Children at this age may start to go longer between meals and snacks. Their ability to eat more at meals grows and they are often involved in other activities such as preschool or sports that impact their eating patterns.
Below is a sample feeding schedule for a 4 year old.
| Time of day | Meal |
|---|---|
| 7:00/7:30 AM | Breakfast |
| 9:30/10:00 AM | Morning snack (optional) |
| 12:00/12:30 PM | Lunch |
| 3:00/3:30 PM | Afternoon snack |
| 6:00/6:30 PM | Dinner |
How much to feed a 4 year old: Food chart
Continue offering a variety of foods to your four year old without pressure or expectation that they try them. You might be surprised what they start to try now that they are a little bit older. Offering simple choices at mealtime can help get a preschooler excited about mealtime.
4 year old feeding chart
| Time of day | Meal ideas |
|---|---|
| Breakfast: | Cereal with milk, strawberries |
| Mid-morning snack: | Hummus and cucumber slices |
| Lunch: | Peanut butter and jelly sandwich, apple slices, carrot sticks and ranch dip, pretzels |
| Mid-afternoon snack: | Orange slices and string cheese |
| Dinner: | Pasta with meatballs, side salad |
5 tips for feeding your 4 year old
Model healthy food habits | Preschoolers learn by watching you, so model balanced eating, avoid labeling foods as “good” or “bad,” and keep body and weight talk positive and minimal. |
Serve meals family-style | Let your child serve themselves from shared dishes to build autonomy and awareness of portion sizes that feel right for their body. |
Choose drinks carefully | Prioritize water and milk, limiting juice and sugary drinks. Early habits shape long-term beverage preferences and support overall health. |
Offer regular meal and snack times | Stick to a consistent meal and snack schedule to help your child tune into hunger and fullness cues, even if they occasionally skip snacks. |
Understand portion sizes | Serve child-sized portions and offer seconds if they’re still hungry. Smaller portions feel less overwhelming and encourage self-regulation. |
Tip #1: Model healthy food habits
Preschoolers are highly impressionable and may be more apt to do as you do, rather than to do as you say. In this case, do your best to work on your own relationship with food and model healthy food habits for them.
Try eating a variety of foods, avoid labeling foods as good or bad, and keep talk about weight in check.
Tip #2: Serve meals family-style
As your child gets older, they can be more involved with getting meals ready. If you haven’t already, try serving at least some meals family-style. This means putting all the components of the meal on the table and letting everyone serve themselves - including your kiddo!
This gives them autonomy, and choice and helps them learn about what size portions feel good for their body.
Tip #3: Choose drinks carefully
When it comes to beverages, your four year old should drink mostly water or milk. Other drinks such as juice and soft drinks carry little nutritional value and are often full of unwanted added sugars.
and milk now helps to shape your child’s taste preferences and helps them to continue drinking them in the future.
Tip #4: Offer regular meal and snack times
At this age, your child may start to go longer between meals and snacks. They may even skip snacks from time to time.
However, continue to offer meals and snacks at regular intervals instead of relying on them to tell you they are hungry.
Sticking to a routine is helpful for your child to learn about their hunger and fullness cues.
Tip #5: Understand portion sizes
While your child starts to feel more and more like a small adult at mealtime, it’s important to remember they are not. Children, even those who eat large meals at times, should be served portions appropriate for their age.
While it may seem easier to give large portions at the start of the meal, this can be overwhelming for your child. Start with a small portion and let them ask for more if they are hungry.
Night feedings for a 4 year old
At four years old, children should not need to eat overnight. In fact, waking up to eat in the middle of the night would likely impact their sleep negatively. Offer plenty of opportunities to eat throughout the day and introduce a simple bedtime snack if necessary. If your child struggles with night wakings due to hunger, talk with your pediatrician.
Takeaway
Meals can be fun: Four year olds are able to participate in the family meals more and more, and many kids at this age enjoy helping prepare simple meals and snacks.
Continue offering a variety of foods: Preschoolers' taste preferences are still forming so continue to offer a variety of healthy foods and model eating the foods you’d like your child to enjoy.
Serve age-appropriate portions: It may seem easier to give large portions at the start of the meal, but it can be overwhelming for kids. Start small and let them ask for more.
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