Mommy’s Wrist (Mommy’s Thumb): Symptoms, causes, and treatment

Updated Feb 22, 2024
Mommy's Wrist

There seems to be an unquantifiable number of things parents just aren’t prepared for or expecting when it comes to bringing a newborn into the world. Recovering from childbirth, and sleep deprivation seem obvious. But the sudden onslaught of stabbing hand and wrist pain? Not part of the bargain.

I’m talking about a phenomenon commonly known as “Mommy’s wrist.” Mommy’s wrist is incredibly common and thankfully, a treatable condition. This article will equip you with the knowledge to identify, understand, and treat this pesky condition so that you can get back to parenting with far more comfort.


What is Mommy’s wrist?



Home remedies

Exercises for Mommy's wrist prevention

When to see a doctor



Mommy's wrist FAQ

Mommy’s wrist is caused by inflammation over the base of the thumb and wrist. The medical name is “de Quervains Tenosynovitis,” which is a fancy term for tendonitis (inflammation of the tendon). Because of the prevalence reported in post-partum mothers, this tendonitis has been aptly dubbed “Mommy’s wrist.” 

As an Occupational Therapist, I’ve also seen this many times in clinics with patients who perform manual labor, or who spend a significant amount of time with their wrists in repetitive movement - similar to tennis players or factory workers.

Have you ever been holding your sleeping baby or trying your darndest to achieve the best breastfeeding position, only to wince in agony when you move your hand or wrist again? I remember a burning sensation in my wrist after a long contact nap where I was holding my baby in a “just right” position so that he’d stay asleep, not realizing that my wrist was in a very awkward position. 

  • Pain on the thumb side of the wrist, whether at rest or with activity.

  • Tenderness, burning, dull ache, or shooting sensation in the thumb and/or wrist.

  • Difficulty with dynamic or grasping movements of the hands or wrist (i.e. movements that change the shape of your hand), such as turning a door handle or opening jars.

  • Popping or clicking sensation in the thumb or wrist.

While doctors don’t always know what causes this condition, overuse and repetitive movement can result in de Quervain's tenosynovitis. And, as luck would have it, early parenthood is riddled with repetitive movement: picking up the car seat, holding and soothing, feeding, and changing the baby.

Not to mention, due to exhaustion, parents often fall asleep (or should I say pass out?) in wonky positions. Falling asleep with wrists in hyperflexion, or very curled up, can exacerbate the inflammation in the tendons.

The first step to addressing Mommy’s wrist is recognizing that repetitive movements and awkward wrist positions are triggering the symptoms, so it’s important to try to avoid overuse of the wrist as well as hyperflexion or hyperextending.

Adequate rest coupled with avoidance of forceful gripping and using the hand or wrist for a week or so will usually resolve symptoms. However, how realistic is that for most parents? Not very. For many, purchasing an over-the-counter wrist splint helps to keep a neutral position of the wrist. This helps to avoid those extremes of movement and protects against further damage to the joints and tendons.

Icing and over-the-counter anti-inflammatories are also effective ways to reduce inflammation and provide pain relief.

To prevent Mommy's wrist, it's important to strengthen your thumb and wrist. Here are some exercises that can help.

  • Lay your hand flat on a table and move your thumb up and away from the table. Then slowly bring it back down. Do this 10 times in a row, and then try to repeat it a few times a day until your thumb and wrist are stronger and you can tolerate doing it more.

  • Place your fingers inside a rubber band. Then open your fingers slowly to create tension and stretch the rubber band. Repeat this 10 times as well and do the exercise a few times a day as tolerated.

If symptoms are not controlled with rest or a wrist splint, and the pain is causing you to not be able to do things, it’s important to reach out to your primary care doctor, who will likely refer you to a Physical or Occupational Therapist for treatment.

You will likely work with a Physical or Occupational Therapist for treatments. The good news is that surgery is rare, and conservative treatment for Mommy’s wrist can often be used to resolve symptoms in just a few sessions. Therapists may use manual interventions and kinesiology taping. Steroid injections may be considered as well.

  • Mommy’s wrist is very common, and sometimes an unfortunate “side effect” of the post-partum period. It’s deserving of more attention because often I find that parents will suffer in silence. That shouldn’t happen!

  • It can be hard to avoid wrist pain postpartum with all of the rocking, holding, cuddling, and lifting we naturally do in those early months.

  • Be mindful of protecting your wrists when you can. If you do experience pain, don’t wait to address it. You deserve to take care of yourself, too!

Mommy's wrist FAQ

Q: How long does Mommy's wrist last?


There are a lot of factors that influence the healing time for Mommy’s wrist. Most patients report symptom improvement after 4 - 6 recommended treatments, such as using a brace/splint, rest, and gentle stretches. Without treatment, Mommy’s wrist may worsen and cause lasting impairments of the wrist and thumb.

Q: How common is Mommy's wrist among parents?


The prevalence of Mommy’s wrist is estimated to be approximately 2.8 out of every 1,000 women and 0.6 out of every 1,000 for men [1].

Q: Can non-mothers develop “Mommy Thumb”?


There are studies that have found that activities such as texting can lead to Mommy’s wrist. While this diagnosis is more common in women, especially mothers of babies, anyone can develop symptoms.

Q: Does Mommy's wrist go away on its own?


It depends. Because Mommy’s wrist is an inflammatory condition, the severity is quite variable among individuals. More mild cases may resolve on their own; however, it is highly recommended that Mommy’s wrist be treated to prevent long-term issues.

Q: Does Mommy's wrist affect males too?


Yes! Mommy’s wrist is an inflammatory condition caused by overuse of the wrist and thumb tendons, which can happen to anyone.

Note: The content on this site is for informational purposes only and should not replace medical advice from your doctor, pediatrician, or medical professional. If you have questions or concerns, you should contact a medical professional.

1 Sources


  1. Wolf, J. M., Sturdivant, R. X., & Owens, B. D. (2009). Incidence of de Quervain's tenosynovitis in a young, active population. The Journal of hand surgery.